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Sorry, bub. But I'm staying here. I'll be in the Sinful thread if you need me. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:59:48 PM) | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Deep Freeze wrote: And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
Thank you Deep Freeze!!! Thank you my good friend for "THE TRUTH". As Freeze has said about myself: Very few here "get it". If you "get it" than cool.....if you don't ......I feel sorry for you.
And to Vaillant 3.0.....you've just made an "ASS" out of yourself in front of Deep Freeze,Ronheartsell,MG Metal Godess,Becks,spapad,Lady Bathory,Sinner Rider....and all the rest of my friends in here.
Maybe next time you should read what is going on before you open your foul mouth and remove all doubt. I have NEVER liked you or your stupid fucking posts....if you left here this place would only
get stronger. So think twice before you run your pie hole and wrongfully accuse somebody of something they didn't even do.....god you are so fucking dumb.
And Freeze hit this right on the head what he said about this Darryn asshole:
I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
That is the honest "truth" and anyone who disagrees needs thier head examined..... LOL! Deep Freeze I can't tell yoy how much you fucking RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| | Deep Freeze wrote: | | You know Chain, that is a very interesting and well thought-out post. There are points with which I can even agree but I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
I called Darryn friend as well. We had spirited debates and I got to know a man that , at the time, I admired in spite of our obvious differences. I think this is why it is so remarkably odd that he has done the things he has here at this point. And to be perfectly honest, I am not totally convinced that this is ALL his doing! A rather intricate undertaking for anyone, I would think. I do not recall ever "attacking" him during his tenure. We disagreed occasionally but I do recall some rather "heated" PMs. The good thing was, we kept them private. When he and JD had their last "falling out" I did everything I could to try to bring them back together. I hated seeing good friends split.
And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
I guess I disagree most with your comment that Darryn has made the most impact here. I just do not see it. If anything, he took what could have been an incredible legacy and threw it away through his actions. He has had more than one opportunity to "come clean" and to atone and yet his response is that the "Respect Points" system makes it too much trouble to come back. Ummm.....OKAAAAAAAAY.....
It may be true that no one will forget Darryn Helloffs but it is equally true that the reasons are not all good. There are names throughout history that will never be forgotten and yet, I do not believe that is a foundation for some kind of canonization. Something happened to this man and turned him from an intelligent, thoughtful, participating member of this site to a punk. THAT is all the "legacy" I can see and, quite frankly, we have an abundance of "punks" here on this Board.
(Quoting Message by Chain74 from Friday, July 24, 2009 7:49:12 AM)
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There is no denying that Darryn Heloffs was a very self-righteous and pompous man, but there is also no denying that Darryn Heloffs told it like it was. That irritated some people who would have preferred that he would go with the flow. But Darryn's style was to say his piece, let it fly, and then let us deal with it. When he was wrong, he said so. When he made a mistake, he said so. Darryn Heloffs was his own person. He was an individual, a one man movement. I think he was so far ahead of his time here. No one had ever seen anyone like him: funny, charismatic, opinionated, knowledgeable, over the top. Darryn Heloffs was one of a kind. I, for one, am glad that he has moved on. I think that he outgrew this place. His personality was too big. But there is no denying that almost three years after he left, his presence is felt probably more than anyone else that was here before him, or joined after him. Just look at all of his threads. That's him and that's his legacy. The thong thread, the politics thread, the sports thread, the birthday thread,... the list is endless. He did it bigger and more bad-ass than any of us. He did all of this before anyone else did. That's what he leaves behind. He's gone here and good riddance to the fucker, but no one has had more impact here on so many different levels than Darryn Heloffs. Like him or not, no one here will ever forget him. If he comes back, he will get his ass kicked. But how many members know the name Darryn Heloffs or J.D. Diamond? And to be truthful, what did J.D. Diamond ever leave behind here or create that will leave a mark? Just a smart-ass attitude that knows black metal. Good for him. That's really good. Black metal is cool. But Darryn's contribution was fast, hard and spitfire. Most attacked him because they either hated him, were jealous of him, or wanted to be him. And when he left, we hated him because he left us flat and cold. But just one person here says the name "Darryn Heloffs" and he's suddenly all over these pages. Everytime we post in the sports thread, that's Darryn Heloffs. Or when we talk politics, that's Darryn Heloffs too. When something goes wrong, it's Darryn Heloffs again. Everywhere you go in this place, it's Darryn Heloffs. Darryn Heloffs IS judaspriest.com. He's all over the place, even though he left this noticeboard almost three years ago. Edited at: Friday, July 24, 2009 8:08:07 AM |
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, July 24, 2009 5:53:24 PM | |
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LOL! Hey Freeze....do you get that scorn down there when you give somebody a fifty dollar bill? LOL! They look at it and look at it and look....they may as well pull out the ole' 10 power and see if its counterfit or not!! LOL! [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:41:22 PM) | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | Umm, please forgive me MG but I seem to recall ALWAYS supporting you. I remember when you told me what happened and I remember that I have always been very supportive of you, as I would be toward ANY lady of our Board. That is my responsibility as a gentleman. There may have been those that have personally attacked you but I have NEVER done so. I find you to be a delightful, young lady.
(Quoting Message by ~ MG_Metalgoddess~ from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:02:57 PM)
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Excuse me for a minute .. while gain my composure, for what Iam about to say!
Darryn, is a waste of time, and the reason he has lost so many friends is because he has made that choice himself!
When I first started to talk to him, he seemed okay,, then he became literally obsesive, This after telling me he has a wife and 2 children,, And still proceeding with his sexual e-mails, and everything else... Thus the reason I deleted and Blocked him ,, which in turn made him even madder,,,,, So when I moved last year and had no computer I was taken advantage of on this web site!!!!!!!!!!!! A account was created with a simuliar name to mine,, and the trouble started one of which was another female on the board,, I wont mention her name.. But we used to be very good friends that enjoyed one anothers jokes, and life simulairities.. Darryn decided to pretend to be ME.. and tell her all kinds of ridculious things,, and send her all kinds of messages,, Kind of like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum at toys r us..
I stated my case to many people out on the board all of WHOM were all so fond of him, and told me to be his friend in the first place... I HOPE NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW THE TRUTH HAS COME TO LIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is every thing I said he was and even a bigger piece of dirt now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So enjoy it. you earned it,, And yes this place has changed... I feel I have been a good member here a honest person,, I have never hurt anyone, or set out to,,
Hence the reason I dont come here often... If just one person could have at least taken the time to see my point of view and how it was possible I may have been not exageratting when I brought all this up a year age.. ANd given me a chance .. instead of giving these half wits the opportunity..
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[Nicholas Fivepennies] Friday, July 24, 2009 5:16:32 PM | |
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[Nicholas Fivepennies] Friday, July 24, 2009 4:49:49 PM | |
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[J.D. DIAMOND] Friday, July 24, 2009 4:11:31 PM | |
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Hell yeah Nicholas Fivepennies..... not as much as I am enjoying it! lol! Its always kick ass when I have 99% of the forum on my side......." as usual." LOL!
So keep em' comin and sit back and watch your name be an example of defemation by the hands of none other than "myself". lol!
Now....go ahead and knock yourself out guy.........the rest of the forum is waiting on your next unworthy post........ [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Nicholas Fivepennies from Friday, July 24, 2009 3:09:31 PM) | | Nicholas Fivepennies wrote: | | It sure is a riot and I'm enjoying every moment of it. | | Wild Nights, Hot & Crazee Days! wrote: | | This place is a riot! |
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[Nicholas Fivepennies] Friday, July 24, 2009 3:09:31 PM | |
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It sure is a riot and I'm enjoying every moment of it. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Wild Nights, Hot & Crazee Days! from Friday, July 24, 2009 1:43:34 PM) | | Wild Nights, Hot & Crazee Days! wrote: | | This place is a riot! |
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[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by J.D. DIAMOND from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:59:48 PM) | | J.D. DIAMOND wrote: | | Deep Freeze wrote: And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
Thank you Deep Freeze!!! Thank you my good friend for "THE TRUTH". As Freeze has said about myself: Very few here "get it". If you "get it" than cool.....if you don't ......I feel sorry for you.
And to Vaillant 3.0.....you've just made an "ASS" out of yourself in front of Deep Freeze,Ronheartsell,MG Metal Godess,Becks,spapad,Lady Bathory,Sinner Rider....and all the rest of my friends in here.
Maybe next time you should read what is going on before you open your foul mouth and remove all doubt. I have NEVER liked you or your stupid fucking posts....if you left here this place would only
get stronger. So think twice before you run your pie hole and wrongfully accuse somebody of something they didn't even do.....god you are so fucking dumb.
And Freeze hit this right on the head what he said about this Darryn asshole:
I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
That is the honest "truth" and anyone who disagrees needs thier head examined..... LOL! Deep Freeze I can't tell yoy how much you fucking RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| | Deep Freeze wrote: | | You know Chain, that is a very interesting and well thought-out post. There are points with which I can even agree but I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
I called Darryn friend as well. We had spirited debates and I got to know a man that , at the time, I admired in spite of our obvious differences. I think this is why it is so remarkably odd that he has done the things he has here at this point. And to be perfectly honest, I am not totally convinced that this is ALL his doing! A rather intricate undertaking for anyone, I would think. I do not recall ever "attacking" him during his tenure. We disagreed occasionally but I do recall some rather "heated" PMs. The good thing was, we kept them private. When he and JD had their last "falling out" I did everything I could to try to bring them back together. I hated seeing good friends split.
And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
I guess I disagree most with your comment that Darryn has made the most impact here. I just do not see it. If anything, he took what could have been an incredible legacy and threw it away through his actions. He has had more than one opportunity to "come clean" and to atone and yet his response is that the "Respect Points" system makes it too much trouble to come back. Ummm.....OKAAAAAAAAY.....
It may be true that no one will forget Darryn Helloffs but it is equally true that the reasons are not all good. There are names throughout history that will never be forgotten and yet, I do not believe that is a foundation for some kind of canonization. Something happened to this man and turned him from an intelligent, thoughtful, participating member of this site to a punk. THAT is all the "legacy" I can see and, quite frankly, we have an abundance of "punks" here on this Board.
(Quoting Message by Chain74 from Friday, July 24, 2009 7:49:12 AM)
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There is no denying that Darryn Heloffs was a very self-righteous and pompous man, but there is also no denying that Darryn Heloffs told it like it was. That irritated some people who would have preferred that he would go with the flow. But Darryn's style was to say his piece, let it fly, and then let us deal with it. When he was wrong, he said so. When he made a mistake, he said so. Darryn Heloffs was his own person. He was an individual, a one man movement. I think he was so far ahead of his time here. No one had ever seen anyone like him: funny, charismatic, opinionated, knowledgeable, over the top. Darryn Heloffs was one of a kind. I, for one, am glad that he has moved on. I think that he outgrew this place. His personality was too big. But there is no denying that almost three years after he left, his presence is felt probably more than anyone else that was here before him, or joined after him. Just look at all of his threads. That's him and that's his legacy. The thong thread, the politics thread, the sports thread, the birthday thread,... the list is endless. He did it bigger and more bad-ass than any of us. He did all of this before anyone else did. That's what he leaves behind. He's gone here and good riddance to the fucker, but no one has had more impact here on so many different levels than Darryn Heloffs. Like him or not, no one here will ever forget him. If he comes back, he will get his ass kicked. But how many members know the name Darryn Heloffs or J.D. Diamond? And to be truthful, what did J.D. Diamond ever leave behind here or create that will leave a mark? Just a smart-ass attitude that knows black metal. Good for him. That's really good. Black metal is cool. But Darryn's contribution was fast, hard and spitfire. Most attacked him because they either hated him, were jealous of him, or wanted to be him. And when he left, we hated him because he left us flat and cold. But just one person here says the name "Darryn Heloffs" and he's suddenly all over these pages. Everytime we post in the sports thread, that's Darryn Heloffs. Or when we talk politics, that's Darryn Heloffs too. When something goes wrong, it's Darryn Heloffs again. Everywhere you go in this place, it's Darryn Heloffs. Darryn Heloffs IS judaspriest.com. He's all over the place, even though he left this noticeboard almost three years ago. Edited at: Friday, July 24, 2009 8:08:07 AM |
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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Friday, July 24, 2009 2:45:16 PM | |
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Yes Freeze I was not reffering to you So I apologize,, There are a few gentlemen out here.. I agee...
ANd I do appreciate the few people that have supported me.. I just didnt want to name ..names, and put people on the spot... or make them feel put in the middle of anything this monster Darryn does..
MG~ [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:41:22 PM) | | Deep Freeze wrote: | | Umm, please forgive me MG but I seem to recall ALWAYS supporting you. I remember when you told me what happened and I remember that I have always been very supportive of you, as I would be toward ANY lady of our Board. That is my responsibility as a gentleman. There may have been those that have personally attacked you but I have NEVER done so. I find you to be a delightful, young lady.
(Quoting Message by ~ MG_Metalgoddess~ from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:02:57 PM)
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Excuse me for a minute .. while gain my composure, for what Iam about to say!
Darryn, is a waste of time, and the reason he has lost so many friends is because he has made that choice himself!
When I first started to talk to him, he seemed okay,, then he became literally obsesive, This after telling me he has a wife and 2 children,, And still proceeding with his sexual e-mails, and everything else... Thus the reason I deleted and Blocked him ,, which in turn made him even madder,,,,, So when I moved last year and had no computer I was taken advantage of on this web site!!!!!!!!!!!! A account was created with a simuliar name to mine,, and the trouble started one of which was another female on the board,, I wont mention her name.. But we used to be very good friends that enjoyed one anothers jokes, and life simulairities.. Darryn decided to pretend to be ME.. and tell her all kinds of ridculious things,, and send her all kinds of messages,, Kind of like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum at toys r us..
I stated my case to many people out on the board all of WHOM were all so fond of him, and told me to be his friend in the first place... I HOPE NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW THE TRUTH HAS COME TO LIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is every thing I said he was and even a bigger piece of dirt now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So enjoy it. you earned it,, And yes this place has changed... I feel I have been a good member here a honest person,, I have never hurt anyone, or set out to,,
Hence the reason I dont come here often... If just one person could have at least taken the time to see my point of view and how it was possible I may have been not exageratting when I brought all this up a year age.. ANd given me a chance .. instead of giving these half wits the opportunity..
MG~
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[Deep Freeze] Friday, July 24, 2009 2:41:22 PM | |
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Umm, please forgive me MG but I seem to recall ALWAYS supporting you. I remember when you told me what happened and I remember that I have always been very supportive of you, as I would be toward ANY lady of our Board. That is my responsibility as a gentleman. There may have been those that have personally attacked you but I have NEVER done so. I find you to be a delightful, young lady.
[Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ~ MG_Metalgoddess~ from Friday, July 24, 2009 2:02:57 PM)
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Excuse me for a minute .. while gain my composure, for what Iam about to say!
Darryn, is a waste of time, and the reason he has lost so many friends is because he has made that choice himself!
When I first started to talk to him, he seemed okay,, then he became literally obsesive, This after telling me he has a wife and 2 children,, And still proceeding with his sexual e-mails, and everything else... Thus the reason I deleted and Blocked him ,, which in turn made him even madder,,,,, So when I moved last year and had no computer I was taken advantage of on this web site!!!!!!!!!!!! A account was created with a simuliar name to mine,, and the trouble started one of which was another female on the board,, I wont mention her name.. But we used to be very good friends that enjoyed one anothers jokes, and life simulairities.. Darryn decided to pretend to be ME.. and tell her all kinds of ridculious things,, and send her all kinds of messages,, Kind of like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum at toys r us..
I stated my case to many people out on the board all of WHOM were all so fond of him, and told me to be his friend in the first place... I HOPE NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW THE TRUTH HAS COME TO LIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is every thing I said he was and even a bigger piece of dirt now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So enjoy it. you earned it,, And yes this place has changed... I feel I have been a good member here a honest person,, I have never hurt anyone, or set out to,,
Hence the reason I dont come here often... If just one person could have at least taken the time to see my point of view and how it was possible I may have been not exageratting when I brought all this up a year age.. ANd given me a chance .. instead of giving these half wits the opportunity..
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[~ MG_Metalgoddess~] Friday, July 24, 2009 2:02:57 PM | |
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Excuse me for a minute .. while gain my composure, for what Iam about to say!
Darryn, is a waste of time, and the reason he has lost so many friends is because he has made that choice himself!
When I first started to talk to him, he seemed okay,, then he became literally obsesive, This after telling me he has a wife and 2 children,, And still proceeding with his sexual e-mails, and everything else... Thus the reason I deleted and Blocked him ,, which in turn made him even madder,,,,, So when I moved last year and had no computer I was taken advantage of on this web site!!!!!!!!!!!! A account was created with a simuliar name to mine,, and the trouble started one of which was another female on the board,, I wont mention her name.. But we used to be very good friends that enjoyed one anothers jokes, and life simulairities.. Darryn decided to pretend to be ME.. and tell her all kinds of ridculious things,, and send her all kinds of messages,, Kind of like a 2 year old throwing a tantrum at toys r us..
I stated my case to many people out on the board all of WHOM were all so fond of him, and told me to be his friend in the first place... I HOPE NOW YOU CAN SEE HOW THE TRUTH HAS COME TO LIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is every thing I said he was and even a bigger piece of dirt now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So enjoy it. you earned it,, And yes this place has changed... I feel I have been a good member here a honest person,, I have never hurt anyone, or set out to,,
Hence the reason I dont come here often... If just one person could have at least taken the time to see my point of view and how it was possible I may have been not exageratting when I brought all this up a year age.. ANd given me a chance .. instead of giving these half wits the opportunity..
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I couldn't disagree with you more Chain74 and here's why...
Unless you have intimate information as to the who's and the why's, I'm assuming you're remarks are your opinion and not fact. To suggest he was too intelligent for this sight and everyone else were too simple for him is a slap in the face, I'm not saying that everyone here are rocket scientists, but this is a public site open to all for a Heavy Metal band. You get what you get and make the most of it. Maybe it wasn't his personality that was too big, but his own ego.
The folks that jump on the band wagon are usually the same half dozen or so, that hardly makes up the majority of the membership. I do agree that it is foolish and juvenile to do such things, but everyone has there limits, too.
Darryn is definately not to blame entirely, but he did in fact abuse the 'respect point' system by creating dubious accounts to gain his points and that in fact is deceitful and that shows no integrity at all. What's respectful about that??
He may have spent his initial time here as a great and respectful member, but the last couple of years that I am aware of, he has shown no such traits. As a matter of fact, he has become the epitomy of how a member should not act!! I can't imagine any printed words directed towards him that can justify his lack of respect to Judas Priest, their Web site or their fans in general. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Chain74 from Friday, July 24, 2009 12:39:59 PM) | | Chain74 wrote: | | There was definitely a dark side to Darryn Heloffs. He was a sly man. It's a well-known fact that he was obsessed with the respect point system. He really wanted that title, but he was not the only one. I wouldn't say that I really liked him, but I always respected him. One can not be blind for his contributions. He gave a lot to this site. His posts were long-winded, but always very interesting and refreshing to read. He was a very intelligent and multi-dimensional person, during a time when 95% of the members were one-dimensional primates. Darryn Heloffs always delivered quality. He had a valid opinion on everything, wether it was music-related or society-related. He was unique because he always used solid argumentation to get his point across, instead of the usual name-calling.
Maybe he just came for friendship and said "fuck off" after a while because he did not receive it back. Maybe he could not deal with that simplistic way of thinking that was a characteristic of so many members. Like I said: maybe his personality was too big for this noticeboard. Maybe he was too intelligent and decided to call it quits. His motives are his alone. Perhaps he reached out and no one would reach back. It takes two to make an effort. It can't be all his fault. He is the only one who always receives critique. He deserves some, but definitely not all. I believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with this noticeboard and it's not "Darryn Heloffs". I don't think you can put the blame on one single member. No, it's that caveman mentality that is shared by a majority of the membership over here. When somebody tries to start an intelligent discussion on this site only one or two members participate and the discussion soon bleeds to death. But when another member starts a cyberwar everybody immediately jumps on the bandwagon. It always seems as if the majority of the membership loves that kind of negativity. That caveman mentality continues to decimate the better part of the membership and it's turning judaspriest.com into a desolate, barren desert where only a handful of primitive creatures will feel at home.
The list of members that have left this site is astonishing. Anyone remember Priest_Hammer, Metal Meltdown, Hard As Iron, I.M.P., Pitbullgirl, Timboni, DemonCat, Painkiller1990, Sullivan Titwillow, RoboCaster, fatman_rick, DEN1673,...? I could post a few dozen more, but you get my point. I remember that an English gentleman used to post over here, but he soon left after a few members (very foolish people) started to call him names. That's a nice example of what's going on in here. I believe that something similar happened to Darryn Heloffs. (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, July 24, 2009 8:41:30 AM)
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You know Chain, that is a very interesting and well thought-out post. There are points with which I can even agree but I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
I called Darryn friend as well. We had spirited debates and I got to know a man that , at the time, I admired in spite of our obvious differences. I think this is why it is so remarkably odd that he has done the things he has here at this point. And to be perfectly honest, I am not totally convinced that this is ALL his doing! A rather intricate undertaking for anyone, I would think. I do not recall ever "attacking" him during his tenure. We disagreed occasionally but I do recall some rather "heated" PMs. The good thing was, we kept them private. When he and JD had their last "falling out" I did everything I could to try to bring them back together. I hated seeing good friends split.
And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
I guess I disagree most with your comment that Darryn has made the most impact here. I just do not see it. If anything, he took what could have been an incredible legacy and threw it away through his actions. He has had more than one opportunity to "come clean" and to atone and yet his response is that the "Respect Points" system makes it too much trouble to come back. Ummm.....OKAAAAAAAAY.....
It may be true that no one will forget Darryn Helloffs but it is equally true that the reasons are not all good. There are names throughout history that will never be forgotten and yet, I do not believe that is a foundation for some kind of canonization. Something happened to this man and turned him from an intelligent, thoughtful, participating member of this site to a punk. THAT is all the "legacy" I can see and, quite frankly, we have an abundance of "punks" here on this Board.
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There is no denying that Darryn Heloffs was a very self-righteous and pompous man, but there is also no denying that Darryn Heloffs told it like it was. That irritated some people who would have preferred that he would go with the flow. But Darryn's style was to say his piece, let it fly, and then let us deal with it. When he was wrong, he said so. When he made a mistake, he said so. Darryn Heloffs was his own person. He was an individual, a one man movement. I think he was so far ahead of his time here. No one had ever seen anyone like him: funny, charismatic, opinionated, knowledgeable, over the top. Darryn Heloffs was one of a kind. I, for one, am glad that he has moved on. I think that he outgrew this place. His personality was too big. But there is no denying that almost three years after he left, his presence is felt probably more than anyone else that was here before him, or joined after him. Just look at all of his threads. That's him and that's his legacy. The thong thread, the politics thread, the sports thread, the birthday thread,... the list is endless. He did it bigger and more bad-ass than any of us. He did all of this before anyone else did. That's what he leaves behind. He's gone here and good riddance to the fucker, but no one has had more impact here on so many different levels than Darryn Heloffs. Like him or not, no one here will ever forget him. If he comes back, he will get his ass kicked. But how many members know the name Darryn Heloffs or J.D. Diamond? And to be truthful, what did J.D. Diamond ever leave behind here or create that will leave a mark? Just a smart-ass attitude that knows black metal. Good for him. That's really good. Black metal is cool. But Darryn's contribution was fast, hard and spitfire. Most attacked him because they either hated him, were jealous of him, or wanted to be him. And when he left, we hated him because he left us flat and cold. But just one person here says the name "Darryn Heloffs" and he's suddenly all over these pages. Everytime we post in the sports thread, that's Darryn Heloffs. Or when we talk politics, that's Darryn Heloffs too. When something goes wrong, it's Darryn Heloffs again. Everywhere you go in this place, it's Darryn Heloffs. Darryn Heloffs IS judaspriest.com. He's all over the place, even though he left this noticeboard almost three years ago. Edited at: Friday, July 24, 2009 8:08:07 AM |
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Yes, I suppose there is something to your position. I feel that I have a different perspective since I made it a point to befriend Darryn AND to attempt to stay in touch via e-mail LONG after he had left. As for spirited debate, we certainly had ours. Whether or not I would define that as "refreshing" I do not know. He was articulate, yes. He was opinionated, as are most of us. However, he never struck me as the Renaissance man you describe. I suppose that too is a matter of opinion. Regardless, I do agree that it is not entirely his fault. At least not that so many left. However, anything he has done that is subversive is ALL him. One cannot deflect blame simply by claiming misunderstanding.
As for the dozen "missing" members you mention, about half are truly missed. The others still come around when life allows. I chatted with MM a couple days ago and Den YESTERDAY, albeit not on this site. Iron is actually in Arizona now but I am not sure when he will return. That does not mean that this Board has become the wasteland you seem to wish it to be. I comepletely disagree with that characterization. In fact , I will go you one better and state FOR THE RECORD that the large majority of those that do not come here any longer are FAR better off elsewhere anyway. Good riddance, I say. In fact, there are certainly a couple more that I truly wish would join them. Nothing all that "astonishing" there, I assure you. All MY opinion, of course.
The "caveman" mentality is an interesting analogy. Clearly we have seen our fair share of moronic behavior but I still hold that there is nothing all that surprising about it, given that this IS a public forum and is NOT moderated. Were Murray to make THAT change and I am certain it would be an entirely different environment here. In all honestly, I have NO interest in seeing this site become The "Q" Redux. I would just as soon police ourselves, such as we can, and enjoy those that truly come here to make friends. There is NO denying that there are many here for that very purpose and there will always be those looking to troll... [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Chain74 from Friday, July 24, 2009 12:39:59 PM) | | Chain74 wrote: | | There was definitely a dark side to Darryn Heloffs. He was a sly man. It's a well-known fact that he was obsessed with the respect point system. He really wanted that title, but he was not the only one. I wouldn't say that I really liked him, but I always respected him. One can not be blind for his contributions. He gave a lot to this site. His posts were long-winded, but always very interesting and refreshing to read. He was a very intelligent and multi-dimensional person, during a time when 95% of the members were one-dimensional primates. Darryn Heloffs always delivered quality. He had a valid opinion on everything, wether it was music-related or society-related. He was unique because he always used solid argumentation to get his point across, instead of the usual name-calling.
Maybe he just came for friendship and said "fuck off" after a while because he did not receive it back. Maybe he could not deal with that simplistic way of thinking that was a characteristic of so many members. Like I said: maybe his personality was too big for this noticeboard. Maybe he was too intelligent and decided to call it quits. His motives are his alone. Perhaps he reached out and no one would reach back. It takes two to make an effort. It can't be all his fault. He is the only one who always receives critique. He deserves some, but definitely not all. I believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with this noticeboard and it's not "Darryn Heloffs". I don't think you can put the blame on one single member. No, it's that caveman mentality that is shared by a majority of the membership over here. When somebody tries to start an intelligent discussion on this site only one or two members participate and the discussion soon bleeds to death. But when another member starts a cyberwar everybody immediately jumps on the bandwagon. It always seems as if the majority of the membership loves that kind of negativity. That caveman mentality continues to decimate the better part of the membership and it's turning judaspriest.com into a desolate, barren desert where only a handful of primitive creatures will feel at home.
The list of members that have left this site is astonishing. Anyone remember Priest_Hammer, Metal Meltdown, Hard As Iron, I.M.P., Pitbullgirl, Timboni, DemonCat, Painkiller1990, Sullivan Titwillow, RoboCaster, fatman_rick, DEN1673,...? I could post a few dozen more, but you get my point. I remember that an English gentleman used to post over here, but he soon left after a few members (very foolish people) started to call him names. That's a nice example of what's going on in here. I believe that something similar happened to Darryn Heloffs. (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, July 24, 2009 8:41:30 AM)
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You know Chain, that is a very interesting and well thought-out post. There are points with which I can even agree but I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
I called Darryn friend as well. We had spirited debates and I got to know a man that , at the time, I admired in spite of our obvious differences. I think this is why it is so remarkably odd that he has done the things he has here at this point. And to be perfectly honest, I am not totally convinced that this is ALL his doing! A rather intricate undertaking for anyone, I would think. I do not recall ever "attacking" him during his tenure. We disagreed occasionally but I do recall some rather "heated" PMs. The good thing was, we kept them private. When he and JD had their last "falling out" I did everything I could to try to bring them back together. I hated seeing good friends split.
And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
I guess I disagree most with your comment that Darryn has made the most impact here. I just do not see it. If anything, he took what could have been an incredible legacy and threw it away through his actions. He has had more than one opportunity to "come clean" and to atone and yet his response is that the "Respect Points" system makes it too much trouble to come back. Ummm.....OKAAAAAAAAY.....
It may be true that no one will forget Darryn Helloffs but it is equally true that the reasons are not all good. There are names throughout history that will never be forgotten and yet, I do not believe that is a foundation for some kind of canonization. Something happened to this man and turned him from an intelligent, thoughtful, participating member of this site to a punk. THAT is all the "legacy" I can see and, quite frankly, we have an abundance of "punks" here on this Board.
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There is no denying that Darryn Heloffs was a very self-righteous and pompous man, but there is also no denying that Darryn Heloffs told it like it was. That irritated some people who would have preferred that he would go with the flow. But Darryn's style was to say his piece, let it fly, and then let us deal with it. When he was wrong, he said so. When he made a mistake, he said so. Darryn Heloffs was his own person. He was an individual, a one man movement. I think he was so far ahead of his time here. No one had ever seen anyone like him: funny, charismatic, opinionated, knowledgeable, over the top. Darryn Heloffs was one of a kind. I, for one, am glad that he has moved on. I think that he outgrew this place. His personality was too big. But there is no denying that almost three years after he left, his presence is felt probably more than anyone else that was here before him, or joined after him. Just look at all of his threads. That's him and that's his legacy. The thong thread, the politics thread, the sports thread, the birthday thread,... the list is endless. He did it bigger and more bad-ass than any of us. He did all of this before anyone else did. That's what he leaves behind. He's gone here and good riddance to the fucker, but no one has had more impact here on so many different levels than Darryn Heloffs. Like him or not, no one here will ever forget him. If he comes back, he will get his ass kicked. But how many members know the name Darryn Heloffs or J.D. Diamond? And to be truthful, what did J.D. Diamond ever leave behind here or create that will leave a mark? Just a smart-ass attitude that knows black metal. Good for him. That's really good. Black metal is cool. But Darryn's contribution was fast, hard and spitfire. Most attacked him because they either hated him, were jealous of him, or wanted to be him. And when he left, we hated him because he left us flat and cold. But just one person here says the name "Darryn Heloffs" and he's suddenly all over these pages. Everytime we post in the sports thread, that's Darryn Heloffs. Or when we talk politics, that's Darryn Heloffs too. When something goes wrong, it's Darryn Heloffs again. Everywhere you go in this place, it's Darryn Heloffs. Darryn Heloffs IS judaspriest.com. He's all over the place, even though he left this noticeboard almost three years ago. Edited at: Friday, July 24, 2009 8:08:07 AM |
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There was definitely a dark side to Darryn Heloffs. He was a sly man. It's a well-known fact that he was obsessed with the respect point system. He really wanted that title, but he was not the only one. I wouldn't say that I really liked him, but I always respected him. One can not be blind for his contributions. He gave a lot to this site. His posts were long-winded, but always very interesting and refreshing to read. He was a very intelligent and multi-dimensional person, during a time when 95% of the members were one-dimensional primates. Darryn Heloffs always delivered quality. He had a valid opinion on everything, wether it was music-related or society-related. He was unique because he always used solid argumentation to get his point across, instead of the usual name-calling.
Maybe he just came for friendship and said "fuck off" after a while because he did not receive it back. Maybe he could not deal with that simplistic way of thinking that was a characteristic of so many members. Like I said: maybe his personality was too big for this noticeboard. Maybe he was too intelligent and decided to call it quits. His motives are his alone. Perhaps he reached out and no one would reach back. It takes two to make an effort. It can't be all his fault. He is the only one who always receives critique. He deserves some, but definitely not all. I believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with this noticeboard and it's not "Darryn Heloffs". I don't think you can put the blame on one single member. No, it's that caveman mentality that is shared by a majority of the membership over here. When somebody tries to start an intelligent discussion on this site only one or two members participate and the discussion soon bleeds to death. But when another member starts a cyberwar everybody immediately jumps on the bandwagon. It always seems as if the majority of the membership loves that kind of negativity. That caveman mentality continues to decimate the better part of the membership and it's turning judaspriest.com into a desolate, barren desert where only a handful of primitive creatures will feel at home.
The list of members that have left this site is astonishing. Anyone remember Priest_Hammer, Metal Meltdown, Hard As Iron, I.M.P., Pitbullgirl, Timboni, DemonCat, Painkiller1990, Sullivan Titwillow, RoboCaster, fatman_rick, DEN1673,...? I could post a few dozen more, but you get my point. I remember that an English gentleman used to post over here, but he soon left after a few members (very foolish people) started to call him names. That's a nice example of what's going on in here. I believe that something similar happened to Darryn Heloffs. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by Deep Freeze from Friday, July 24, 2009 8:41:30 AM)
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You know Chain, that is a very interesting and well thought-out post. There are points with which I can even agree but I feel you are confusing a "legacy" with a "cyber-infection". I mean, when one says the name Charles Manson, we all know who it is and yet, is that a "legacy"? Is a person that would come back to a place where he left in dubious "triumph" only to commit one act of malefeasance after another truly how we would label "JP. com"????? We have all seen that ANY nimrod can create a Thread ( or TEN) and there are enough lemmings here to sustain it. Please! Creating a Thread is NO basis for admiration.
I called Darryn friend as well. We had spirited debates and I got to know a man that , at the time, I admired in spite of our obvious differences. I think this is why it is so remarkably odd that he has done the things he has here at this point. And to be perfectly honest, I am not totally convinced that this is ALL his doing! A rather intricate undertaking for anyone, I would think. I do not recall ever "attacking" him during his tenure. We disagreed occasionally but I do recall some rather "heated" PMs. The good thing was, we kept them private. When he and JD had their last "falling out" I did everything I could to try to bring them back together. I hated seeing good friends split.
And speaking of JD, I find it more than ridiculous to suggest that he has not contributed to this site or that he has only been one dimensional. There are VERY few members of this Board, past AND present, that really "get" JD. I think that galled Darryn more than anything. JD is a very special guy and, most importantly, a VERY loyal friend. That speaks volumes for his true character...not the guy you see ripping faces off here in the Threads. Like I said, very few "get it".
I guess I disagree most with your comment that Darryn has made the most impact here. I just do not see it. If anything, he took what could have been an incredible legacy and threw it away through his actions. He has had more than one opportunity to "come clean" and to atone and yet his response is that the "Respect Points" system makes it too much trouble to come back. Ummm.....OKAAAAAAAAY.....
It may be true that no one will forget Darryn Helloffs but it is equally true that the reasons are not all good. There are names throughout history that will never be forgotten and yet, I do not believe that is a foundation for some kind of canonization. Something happened to this man and turned him from an intelligent, thoughtful, participating member of this site to a punk. THAT is all the "legacy" I can see and, quite frankly, we have an abundance of "punks" here on this Board.
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There is no denying that Darryn Heloffs was a very self-righteous and pompous man, but there is also no denying that Darryn Heloffs told it like it was. That irritated some people who would have preferred that he would go with the flow. But Darryn's style was to say his piece, let it fly, and then let us deal with it. When he was wrong, he said so. When he made a mistake, he said so. Darryn Heloffs was his own person. He was an individual, a one man movement. I think he was so far ahead of his time here. No one had ever seen anyone like him: funny, charismatic, opinionated, knowledgeable, over the top. Darryn Heloffs was one of a kind. I, for one, am glad that he has moved on. I think that he outgrew this place. His personality was too big. But there is no denying that almost three years after he left, his presence is felt probably more than anyone else that was here before him, or joined after him. Just look at all of his threads. That's him and that's his legacy. The thong thread, the politics thread, the sports thread, the birthday thread,... the list is endless. He did it bigger and more bad-ass than any of us. He did all of this before anyone else did. That's what he leaves behind. He's gone here and good riddance to the fucker, but no one has had more impact here on so many different levels than Darryn Heloffs. Like him or not, no one here will ever forget him. If he comes back, he will get his ass kicked. But how many members know the name Darryn Heloffs or J.D. Diamond? And to be truthful, what did J.D. Diamond ever leave behind here or create that will leave a mark? Just a smart-ass attitude that knows black metal. Good for him. That's really good. Black metal is cool. But Darryn's contribution was fast, hard and spitfire. Most attacked him because they either hated him, were jealous of him, or wanted to be him. And when he left, we hated him because he left us flat and cold. But just one person here says the name "Darryn Heloffs" and he's suddenly all over these pages. Everytime we post in the sports thread, that's Darryn Heloffs. Or when we talk politics, that's Darryn Heloffs too. When something goes wrong, it's Darryn Heloffs again. Everywhere you go in this place, it's Darryn Heloffs. Darryn Heloffs IS judaspriest.com. He's all over the place, even though he left this noticeboard almost three years ago. Edited at: Friday, July 24, 2009 8:08:07 AM |
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I know But really it's the new members who suffer the most. The old timers here have weathered him (and many others) for so long, they're probably numb to it all and see it for what it is. On the flip side, most of the old timers don't spend much time hanging out in the newbie threads like some of us do, and as a result we see most of the new comers first and they are exposed to us and therefore should keep that in mind when hanging out there...just my opinion!!! [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by LadyBathory9 from Friday, July 24, 2009 11:28:21 AM) | | LadyBathory9 wrote: | | HI! Ron..At least were gonna chat together here..Ur right..But its hard when u see ppl like him demeaning this site and Judas Priest.. | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hi LadyB...I totally understand where you're coming from. BUT...I will not let any of this keep me from putting myself out here because I love Judas Priest, and that is why I am here, not for all of this!!! I am a friend to anyone...and I mean ANYONE, who wants to celebrate Priest with me...but if you want to drag me down or this Board down in general, you're on your own...don't waste my time!!! | | LadyBathory9 wrote: | | Ron, its so true that it was a fun place to be chatting with friends here..now,i feel that everyone here are on their own..
The good friends that we all met are almost not here anymore or they post quickly as if they do not want to chat anymore..Its sad ...even me am wondering now if am gonna come here again or less often..IDK...And when its a newcomer,am leery ..cos,maybe its a troublemaker..thats all i wanted to say... | | ronhartsell wrote: | | As a post-Darryn Helloffs Era member, there are 2 sides to him I'm aware of. I once clicked on his profile from the Most Respected Member area and clicked on his Posts to see what this guy was like. Anyone who's ever done that knows that the site only shows like the first 100 posts, but it was more than enough to realize that the guy was intellegent, knowledgeable, articulate, engaging and would pretty much chat with anyone. A lot of his opinions were not my cup of tea, but respectful none the less. What happend?? I wasn't around then, but something did because the Darryn then is not the Darryn now. I'm sure I've engaged if not befriended some of these alter-egos of his, they all seem to have their own personality. What I do know is that he abused the system set up here at this site. I never have, nor will I ever, look at him as a respectful individual nor do I feel him in any positive sense of the word. I do not feel I owe him anything nor do I look at him as having been of any benefit here. As Freeze pointed out, any idiot can create a thread, myself included. He was here at the beginning so it's no great suprise he created some of them as there were none...big deal!!! He's changed his name more often than a porn star and has stirred up way more trouble than he's worth. He's more a pariah than an innovator and has done more to hurt JP.com than to help or promote. The worst part of Darryns presence here is that newer members like myself, who used to welcome most all new members to the Board here, now don't care because I won't waste anymore of my time until they've been here long enough to establish themselves, which sucks because there are a lot of new cool people, but because of Darryn, I can't trust who they are and have been disappointed far too many times when I realize it's just another personality of his. This place, not so long ago, was a really fun place to be. Now, it's more of a trash bin...and that, in large part, we owe Darryn a very warm thank you for!!!! Way to go, buddy!!!!! |
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HI! Ron..At least were gonna chat together here..Ur right..But its hard when u see ppl like him demeaning this site and Judas Priest.. [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by ronhartsell from Friday, July 24, 2009 11:16:17 AM) | | ronhartsell wrote: | | Hi LadyB...I totally understand where you're coming from. BUT...I will not let any of this keep me from putting myself out here because I love Judas Priest, and that is why I am here, not for all of this!!! I am a friend to anyone...and I mean ANYONE, who wants to celebrate Priest with me...but if you want to drag me down or this Board down in general, you're on your own...don't waste my time!!! | | LadyBathory9 wrote: | | Ron, its so true that it was a fun place to be chatting with friends here..now,i feel that everyone here are on their own..
The good friends that we all met are almost not here anymore or they post quickly as if they do not want to chat anymore..Its sad ...even me am wondering now if am gonna come here again or less often..IDK...And when its a newcomer,am leery ..cos,maybe its a troublemaker..thats all i wanted to say... | | ronhartsell wrote: | | As a post-Darryn Helloffs Era member, there are 2 sides to him I'm aware of. I once clicked on his profile from the Most Respected Member area and clicked on his Posts to see what this guy was like. Anyone who's ever done that knows that the site only shows like the first 100 posts, but it was more than enough to realize that the guy was intellegent, knowledgeable, articulate, engaging and would pretty much chat with anyone. A lot of his opinions were not my cup of tea, but respectful none the less. What happend?? I wasn't around then, but something did because the Darryn then is not the Darryn now. I'm sure I've engaged if not befriended some of these alter-egos of his, they all seem to have their own personality. What I do know is that he abused the system set up here at this site. I never have, nor will I ever, look at him as a respectful individual nor do I feel him in any positive sense of the word. I do not feel I owe him anything nor do I look at him as having been of any benefit here. As Freeze pointed out, any idiot can create a thread, myself included. He was here at the beginning so it's no great suprise he created some of them as there were none...big deal!!! He's changed his name more often than a porn star and has stirred up way more trouble than he's worth. He's more a pariah than an innovator and has done more to hurt JP.com than to help or promote. The worst part of Darryns presence here is that newer members like myself, who used to welcome most all new members to the Board here, now don't care because I won't waste anymore of my time until they've been here long enough to establish themselves, which sucks because there are a lot of new cool people, but because of Darryn, I can't trust who they are and have been disappointed far too many times when I realize it's just another personality of his. This place, not so long ago, was a really fun place to be. Now, it's more of a trash bin...and that, in large part, we owe Darryn a very warm thank you for!!!! Way to go, buddy!!!!! |
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Hi LadyB...I totally understand where you're coming from. BUT...I will not let any of this keep me from putting myself out here because I love Judas Priest, and that is why I am here, not for all of this!!! I am a friend to anyone...and I mean ANYONE, who wants to celebrate Priest with me...but if you want to drag me down or this Board down in general, you're on your own...don't waste my time!!! [Show/Hide Quoted Message] (Quoting Message by LadyBathory9 from Friday, July 24, 2009 11:01:47 AM) | | LadyBathory9 wrote: | | Ron, its so true that it was a fun place to be chatting with friends here..now,i feel that everyone here are on their own..
The good friends that we all met are almost not here anymore or they post quickly as if they do not want to chat anymore..Its sad ...even me am wondering now if am gonna come here again or less often..IDK...And when its a newcomer,am leery ..cos,maybe its a troublemaker..thats all i wanted to say... | | ronhartsell wrote: | | As a post-Darryn Helloffs Era member, there are 2 sides to him I'm aware of. I once clicked on his profile from the Most Respected Member area and clicked on his Posts to see what this guy was like. Anyone who's ever done that knows that the site only shows like the first 100 posts, but it was more than enough to realize that the guy was intellegent, knowledgeable, articulate, engaging and would pretty much chat with anyone. A lot of his opinions were not my cup of tea, but respectful none the less. What happend?? I wasn't around then, but something did because the Darryn then is not the Darryn now. I'm sure I've engaged if not befriended some of these alter-egos of his, they all seem to have their own personality. What I do know is that he abused the system set up here at this site. I never have, nor will I ever, look at him as a respectful individual nor do I feel him in any positive sense of the word. I do not feel I owe him anything nor do I look at him as having been of any benefit here. As Freeze pointed out, any idiot can create a thread, myself included. He was here at the beginning so it's no great suprise he created some of them as there were none...big deal!!! He's changed his name more often than a porn star and has stirred up way more trouble than he's worth. He's more a pariah than an innovator and has done more to hurt JP.com than to help or promote. The worst part of Darryns presence here is that newer members like myself, who used to welcome most all new members to the Board here, now don't care because I won't waste anymore of my time until they've been here long enough to establish themselves, which sucks because there are a lot of new cool people, but because of Darryn, I can't trust who they are and have been disappointed far too many times when I realize it's just another personality of his. This place, not so long ago, was a really fun place to be. Now, it's more of a trash bin...and that, in large part, we owe Darryn a very warm thank you for!!!! Way to go, buddy!!!!! |
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