Spapad, I appreciate the support but I didn't want this to happen. Mr. James seems to be somewhat callous.
Don't engage him, just ignore him. Mr. James, if talking about how one feels towards one's wife bothers you
so much why did you even come to this thread? Go to the something pisses you off thread and post there.
I took your first comment as humor(attempted), but the second and third made me wish I could grab you by the neck.
 Peace to all, even Mr. James.

So the fact that we rarely talk insults you and makes me a pompous ass?

		spapad wrote:
		Oh, I thought you were disagreeing that you can sometimes be a pompous ass. Hence we would agree to disagree about that. As for the rest it doesn't take a genious to know that I rarely talk to you and when I do I attempt to be nice, and you rarely talk to me. So, I think it's pretty clear we are not what one would call friends.  As for my statement being harsh, yes it was. I've seen some rather insensitive remarks made by you for which you have not exactly any remorse for said comments. Most were just agreeing with things that are tasteless remarks. I see no reason for appologies and I'm sure you don't as well.      jimmyjames wrote: What are you talking about JD? All I want to know is what I've said to Spa that insulted her so much and why she says that I don't like her. Something I've never said.      J.D. DIAMOND wrote: Well what do you expect coming from a glam rock queen who prefers "Motley Crue" over  British heavy weights Saxon ?? LOFL!!Jimmy ya fuckin kaboosh!! lofl!!!      spapad wrote: I agree to disagree with you. And yes sometimes you do come across as callous, Im sure you know that, and just like me you don't give a shit.      jimmyjames wrote: Wow that's pretty harsh. Don't ever recall criticizing or bad mouthing you. Disagreed on a couple of things but never any nastiness or anything. At least not from me.      spapad wrote: Obviously JJ is just going to keep on with his remarks. I suppose you could say, he's an ass.  And in many ways he is. I find him to be an overbearing pompous ass at times and I'm sure he does not like me either. lol  The kicker is I don't give a shit. I tried to be friends with him and that didn't work. Why? Because he is a pompous ass.    (Quoting Message by Budred from Sunday, April 11, 2010 2:44:13 PM)   Budred wrote:   And he strikes again. Bravo Mr. James, bravo.      jimmyjames wrote:   You post that cheesy, schmaltzy, stomach churning drivel and you expect people not laugh?      Budred wrote:   I'm a guy. I'm not soft and I'm not whipped. I have say in my house. The thing is, I love my wife more than anything out there and I don't mind telling people. I treat my wife with respect and I do everything in my power to make her happy. She is amazing if for no other reason than she stands by me. An admiral trait in my book. I set myself up for ridicule with that post, and of course someone had to pounce. I can deal with that but if the ridicule persists then I have a problem  with that. I've never posted anything (negative) after one of Mr. James posts so I'm  not understanding why he posted ridicule a second time. Responding to my response I guess. Mr. James, if you actually have a problem with me let me know. Maybe we  can solve it. Continuing to ridicule me won't solve anything.      joedraper wrote:   I love nauseating love. Those of us who have it treasure every moment of it. lol      Budred wrote:   I guess that's trying to be funny also?      jimmyjames wrote:   What's happening on the Care Bears website these days anyway?      Budred wrote:   I feel I responded appropriately. I figured it to be an attempt at humor. I did the same thing.      spapad wrote:   Oh, come on Bud, you know we're just kidding! I thought it was pretty funny. I'm sure you have been around Loving couples that make you go, oh no, please stop! HA!      Budred wrote:   It's called the love thread so that's what I posted about. If what makes me happy makes you puke then I hope it was violently. Actually I hope it was dry heaves. Nothing more miserable than trying to hurl only to rip your guts out while trying  for nothing. Peace!      jimmyjames wrote:   Excuse me while I puke violently.      Budred wrote:   I tell my wife I love her everyday. I tell my wife how lucky I am everyday. I tell my wife that she's beautiful everyday.    When I leave for work I (always) hug her and name the hug.      ex. This is the "I love you more than anything hug." I usually name them silly names to make her smile. When I see her for the first time in a while(hours) I give her the jazz hands and say "Yeah, It's Kelli the Beautiful." When I walk out in the morning for work and she sticks her head out behind me the birds are usually whistling. I tell her even the birdies are whistling at you. I'll randomly leave her notes or phone messages telling her how I feel. I'd write more but you guys are probably saying enough already. I guess what I'm trying to relay is that I'm in love. Married 17 years, together for 25. We still get along better than ever. Peace all! Edited at: Sunday, April 11, 2010 4:24:38 PM

Wow that's pretty harsh. Don't ever recall criticizing or bad mouthing you. Disagreed on a couple of things but never any nastiness or anything. At least not from me.

		spapad wrote:
		Obviously JJ is just going to keep on with his remarks. I suppose you could say, he's an ass.  And in many ways he is. I find him to be an overbearing pompous ass at times and I'm sure he does not like me either. lol  The kicker is I don't give a shit. I tried to be friends with him and that didn't work. Why? Because he is a pompous ass.    (Quoting Message by Budred from Sunday, April 11, 2010 2:44:13 PM)   Budred wrote:   And he strikes again. Bravo Mr. James, bravo.      jimmyjames wrote:   You post that cheesy, schmaltzy, stomach churning drivel and you expect people not laugh?      Budred wrote:   I'm a guy. I'm not soft and I'm not whipped. I have say in my house. The thing is, I love my wife more than anything out there and I don't mind telling people. I treat my wife with respect and I do everything in my power to make her happy. She is amazing if for no other reason than she stands by me. An admiral trait in my book. I set myself up for ridicule with that post, and of course someone had to pounce. I can deal with that but if the ridicule persists then I have a problem  with that. I've never posted anything (negative) after one of Mr. James posts so I'm  not understanding why he posted ridicule a second time. Responding to my response I guess. Mr. James, if you actually have a problem with me let me know. Maybe we  can solve it. Continuing to ridicule me won't solve anything.      joedraper wrote:   I love nauseating love. Those of us who have it treasure every moment of it. lol      Budred wrote:   I guess that's trying to be funny also?      jimmyjames wrote:   What's happening on the Care Bears website these days anyway?      Budred wrote:   I feel I responded appropriately. I figured it to be an attempt at humor. I did the same thing.      spapad wrote:   Oh, come on Bud, you know we're just kidding! I thought it was pretty funny. I'm sure you have been around Loving couples that make you go, oh no, please stop! HA!      Budred wrote:   It's called the love thread so that's what I posted about. If what makes me happy makes you puke then I hope it was violently. Actually I hope it was dry heaves. Nothing more miserable than trying to hurl only to rip your guts out while trying  for nothing. Peace!      jimmyjames wrote:   Excuse me while I puke violently.      Budred wrote:   I tell my wife I love her everyday. I tell my wife how lucky I am everyday. I tell my wife that she's beautiful everyday.    When I leave for work I (always) hug her and name the hug.      ex. This is the "I love you more than anything hug." I usually name them silly names to make her smile. When I see her for the first time in a while(hours) I give her the jazz hands and say "Yeah, It's Kelli the Beautiful." When I walk out in the morning for work and she sticks her head out behind me the birds are usually whistling. I tell her even the birdies are whistling at you. I'll randomly leave her notes or phone messages telling her how I feel. I'd write more but you guys are probably saying enough already. I guess what I'm trying to relay is that I'm in love. Married 17 years, together for 25. We still get along better than ever. Peace all! Edited at: Sunday, April 11, 2010 4:24:38 PM